Monday, October 5, 2009

Blogger's Ethics

everyone have their good times, bad times, funny times .......
i'm sure everyone can agree that nobody's perfect..



Specifically to "Particle X" aka "PX"
thank you for your comment in ur blog. but here are some issues that may arise.
it's good to be honest and straightfoward. but at times, it's best kept secret.


if u did not meant to hurt,offend, or to insult anyone, u would not even had posted up that post. what's the point of the unsincere apology ??

" no harm and insult are meant in any of the comment ?? "
i'm sorry to say, you've already insulted, offended, hurt everyone that u'd posed up.

it's like stabbing someone in the heart and taking off the knife.
less pain would be made without pulling out the knife..... i'm not saying you shouldn't apologize. i'm saying u shouldn't say something insincerely.



the reason i'm replying ur blog is not bcuz i despise u (seriously, i dun despise you. i have nothing against you), it's merely because you've cause much emotional damage to many people whom so coincidentally, are my classmates. this is when you've gone too far.


the last thing i would like to do is to scold you, or to ask u to delete the pose. i have no right for that. but please be more considerate upon ur comments.




to most of the people you'd posted about, you'd wished them best of luck in their studies. this tells me that ur not all bad of a person. in contrast to that, your sensitive towards ur friends and classmates.




but this kind of confrontation possesses much emotional distress. does this really make u feel better ?? another way to distress urself, however, is by writing a complaint to the person, but not sending it to the person. just write down all ur feelings towards someone, and burn that letter. psychologically, it works. a letter which is not meant to be sent. An angry letter or so it seems??






why do u get pissed off when u see "fat monster's" face ?? r u saying he has face problem ??
if ur saying he does, then ur definitely insulting God. God made everyone perfect. no one is to be judged that way. ur a christian r u not ?? the last thing u would wan to do is to insult God.. m i not right ???
have u ever actually get to know more about "fat monster" ??? he is actually a very nice, smart, capable student with a dash of sense of humour. never judge a book by it's cover ???







frankly speaking.. i think what u did to "ft" was really really terrible. Hate is very a strong and powerful word. noone is to use it. i feel that noone can use the term revenge other than God. is it worth it to simply ask "ft" a question that is totally out of her topic and cause her marks during her phy presentation??
but u just asked her to study hard ?!!! why not don bomb her, let her get her marks, and just live on with life !!! that was a very immature move. noone bombed u during ur presentation did they?? revenge is not sweeet.... even durian is sweeter than revenge.







a blog is a place for u to have fun in it, post up all ur memories , ur pictures, share what u like to share with the world.
it's definitely not a place for u to insult anyone or to abuse it.







take "pretentious prick" for example.

if u look at his blog, all you'll find is his exaggerated stories and pictures and his wtv.
he didn't hurt anyone.
he has no intention to hurt anyone.
furthermore, he has no reason to hate anyone if someone were to hate him.
AND, HE HAS NO RIGHT TO POST UP COMMENTS THAT WOULD NO DOUBT EMOTIONALLY HURT ANYONE !!!

you know why?? cuz he understand what blog ethics is all about !
every blogger should know it. and if a blogger doesn't know it, then he/she should not blog.






in a chocolate shell (i don like nuts),

i, i mean we (E1), would much appreciate it, if u would stop posting up such comments in your blog.
it really hurts...

secondly, forgive us for what we had done wrong to you, or even hurt you. many of us are just playful and rather immature sometimes, but i bet noone really meant it.
if u dun forgive , how is __________________


thirdly, it's gonna be only 14 more schooling days b4 our finals. so please, appreciate everyone in the class, leave all the hatred behind just for another 14 more days. we wouldn't see each other again forever after this... there's so much drama-mama in our class. let's leave the drama, and let the mama stay. and please stop asking people to "go and die" -.-

one more thing, we're gonna organize a E1 dinner on the 26th nov, which is our moral exam day. do come. it's gonna be the last time we'll see all 30 of us together, forever, and ever.

take care.
good luck.




THE END IS ALWAYS GOOD ! SO IF'S IT'S NOT GOOD, IT'S NOT THE END !~


sincerely yours,

Kiasu King
*i'm not denying that i'm kiasu*


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